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Tranisitioning from a monogamous ...Hi B. Its Kali,<br /><br />Tranisitioning from a monogamous relationship to non monogamous one is as hard as changing genders. Some make it, some don't. Some people are built for honest consensual non-monogamy and others can't imagine it. I believe that non monogamy is for me. Always has been. However it is not that easy. You can't just be non monogamous, a relationship needs to be super solid, communication has to be amazing. It is lots of work. My partner and I have been non-monogamous since we married, with mixed success. I chalk it all up to learning. I believe I have to be super secure before I am able to comfortable with my partner loving another. I like the idea of another women loving her. Making her smile. Making her feel pretty and wanted sexually. I know I need to sleep with men. But again it is not that simple. We have both made bad partner choices. We had relationships when our marriage was on the rocks. But I want to rebuild the foundation diligently, and try again. I don't plan on living celibate. I can't expect her to either. We must change. We must grow.<br /><br />Read the book 'Opening Up' it is a good primer that my therapist recommended. <br /><br />KaliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com